And those ppl who said he's gonna die in a couple of yrs & he'll need looking after once he hits 60 ?!?!? I was married for 13yrs to the biggest ******** imaginable !! See what she is thinking, ask her what she wants from life ? is she really ready for the life a 40 yr old would want to live, i.e., not patying more home life and family BBQ's ?? Everyone is looking for something different in life. And isn't that when the relationship matters when it is just the two of them ?!? You need to have an upfront and honest talk with her BUT don't be judgemental of her !!The onus to prove disability often lies with the user and is not mentioned in the profile posted on the site.
and to be honest I have never been so in love with anyone. and that is that we love each other very deeply and very passionately !! I mean , what 40 yr old wants to go out partying ??
Yes I was worried at first what my friends and family thought, but you know, in the end I decided to follow my heart !! It doesn't worry me that he is older, and now it doesn't worry our families of friends because they know what matters !! that said, I am 30 (not 18) and honestly at 18 I possibly would not have been ready for the life a 40 yr old would want.
Some folks give in to the peer pressure to keep up with their friends and family, but is that ever a good reason to get married and have a kid?
With the divorce rate so high, most of us would agree that getting married just to be married is just silly.
I’ve heard friends wonder aloud, “He’s 40, never been married and has no kids?
Something must be wrong with him.” While some women may consider that man a catch, others stay away wondering why he hasn’t at been married or at the very least, why he has no children.
Maybe they think he’s a dog, a player, a commitment phobe or an emotionally unstable man who is too immature to settle down. After all, should he settle just because he’s 37 years old and his mother is begging him for grandchildren?
Should he break down and marry just anyone because all of his friends are married and having kids?
But to my knowledge, no one ever thought, “what is wrong with her?
”However, my male counterparts might not get the same benefit of the doubt.
Some of our friends were a little skeltical at first, because of the age gap, but we have been together for 2 yrs now and I am still as madly in love with him aws when we first started dating, we have never lost that spark !!