People who place personal ads online or in the newspaper are usually serious about finding romantic partners.Best of all, you have the chance to carefully put together a personal description that reflects who you really are -- something that probably is not going to come through during a quick encounter.And the problem is, women will rarely give you these “green lights,” even if they DO like you.
Also, going on a date can be a little less scary if the person has already gotten the seal of approval from someone that you trust. Often your friend or family member can arrange a blind date, or you might even be able to double-date to make the first encounter that much easier.
Don’t overlook groups that you already belong to such as your church or neighborhood association.
In this video, I talk about why it’s so much more difficult for a guy who is shy, quiet and introverted like you to get a girlfriend or even a date.
(By the way, click here for the free report I mention at the end of the video called “3 Simple Steps To Overcome Shyness Around Girls.” — I guarantee you’ll love this! On the other hand, this will almost never happen to a guy.
The guy is always expected to initiate, which means risking rejection and embarrassment. An introverted guy may not know WHERE to begin meeting women. A shy guy may be too sensitive to getting positive signals or “green lights” from a woman before showing her he’s interested by asking her out, asking for her phone number, going for the kiss, etc.
If he doesn’t have a huge social circle, knows dating women from work is usually a bad idea, and hates loud bars or clubs with their drunken teenagers… I know you’d rather avoid major embarrassment and you also just don’t want to make her uncomfortable.
) I decided to make this video because I kept getting emails from women and girls that sounded like this: My first reaction to these emails was: “You have social anxiety and no friends and you still have a boyfriend?! In fact it’s COMMON for quiet and shy girls to still have no trouble finding a boyfriend. See, as long as a girl is reasonably attractive, there will usually be a guy willing to invest the time and effort to get to know her slowly and get her out of her shell. At best, a girl may give a guy a few “signals” that she’s interested.
Usually she thinks these are obvious, but to guys they’re very subtle…
A great way to get on the dating circuit is to let family and friends know that you are looking.
The main advantage of going this route is that those closest to you probably have a good sense of who you might be compatible with.
If you’ve never had a girlfriend, or it’s been years since you’ve kissed a girl, then how can you possible be confident?