"Slowly kiss your way down his torso, and just as you get to his pelvis, move back up to his ears and neck."As you tantalize him and he strains to touch you, ask him to tell you why he wants you so bad, explaining that you won't let him free until he convinces you.
Once he's pleaded his case, release his hands, roll onto your back, and allow him to take over.
Tell your guy to lie down on the bed, then use handcuffs, scarves, or a necktie to tether his hands together so he can't touch you.
(If you're not game to use real restraints, you can simply hold his hands over his head.)Next, "you want to torture him playfully with your teasing," says sex expert Candida Royalle, author of .
Hairbrush: A hard-bristled hairbrush is perfect for gently scratching his skin.
Rolling pin: Run this baker's basic over his back and thighs during an erotic massage.
Since missionary doesn't exactly make for good TV, get into racier positions where you're facing the camera.
Go for doggie-style so you can both see the action or girl-on-top so you can watch exactly how you move.
"The spontaneity also keeps him anticipating each touch, magnifying his excitement." Plus, the implied roughness invites him to tap in to his primal, wild sexual self.
Grip his butt hard while in missionary, scratch his chest and the sides of his torso while in girl-on-top, or yank his head toward you to give him a passionate, damn-straight kind of kiss.
Or let him know that you're in the mood but want him to conquer you, caveman-style, even if it means playfully wrestling you to the bed as you try to slip out of his grasp.
Breaking out of your touch-here-then-lick-there routine adds a lusty layer to the erotic experience.
And definitely get shots exchanging oral sex so you can see the orgasmic effect you have on each other.