Even the men I have dated think I’m great – so why am I not great enough to settle down with???
In the UK, Caucasian women have no problems dating black men.
If OKCupid’s studies are anything to go by, black men gave black women the cold shoulder too and vice versa.
It’s not uncommon to see this type of couple – however, flip the coin and you’re in a different realm.
The only men I attract are the ones I don’t fancy or have a different agenda to me!
I appreciate your frustration and thank you for your letter, but you’re completely focused on things you can’t change (white men!
) instead of the only thing you CAN change (your perceptions, actions and reactions.) a black man (even though his bits are no different than mine).
I have a question that I don’t think you’ve been asked before!
I’m a slim and attractive, successful black woman who only dates Caucasian men – but I can’t get one to commit! They all say, “I’ve never been out with a black women before” as if all my bits are going to be different to any other woman on this planet.
Is this because most people picture their future from an early age and mixing it up doesn’t quite sit right?
I’m so sick of the “you’re really attractive, why are you single” comments because I don’t KNOW why I’m single.
One dating expert said “If you are a black woman on and you’re not going to initiate contact then you are not going to date.
That’s just the reality.”To get any response at all, black women have to reach out roughly 1.5 times the amount of any other group — and they are still the group that’s the least responded to.
The online dating landscape doesn’t look great for women now.