People with high self-esteem believe they are worthy of love and don’t question how someone feels about them.
Self-esteem doesn’t come from blowing kisses to your reflection in the mirror or repeating “I love myself” over and over.It takes time and it takes work and it isn’t always easy.Here are ten things people with high self-esteem do differently in their relationships: 1.Confident women don’t analyze if he likes them – they assume he does.She may know on a conscious level that it simply wasn’t a match, but deep down she holds on to the destructive belief that she was the problem…and that she is unlovable and the guys she wants will never want her back. Having strong boundaries means you prioritize your needs and your emotions and do not assume responsibility for someone else’s needs and emotions.
Confident women know what they will and will not accept and don’t allow themselves to be pressured or guilted into doing things they don’t want to do.
Confident people don’t abandon parts of themselves in order to have a relationship.
They bring their fully formed self into the relationship and if the guy wants something else, or something more, they leave.
People with low self-esteem don’t trust their judgment, don’t trust their gut instincts, and are afraid of being wrong.
As a result, they either live their lives in a constant state of anxiety, or they look to others to guide them along the right path.
Self-esteem isn’t an essential need like food or water, but it’s a supplement that can either dramatically improve your life, or keep you stunted and unfulfilled.