Japanese women tend to act this way when you are simply dating them. They will stop by your house to drop off a gift that was bought for you.
There is also the chance of her pulling off a disappearing act, leaving you wondering what the hell happened. You marry a Japanese women and then that day comes when you finally go through divorce. In Japan, the wife will take them away from you and disappear.
In the United States at least some courts treat some men fairly.
I’m talking about furniture, vacations, transportation, and more. I don’t know about you guys but I have a problem with this. She wanted access to my checking account and began telling me what I should buy with my own money. A direct consequence of this is the inability to really speak directly and candidly.
I told her that I will do what I want with my money and that she has no business asking me about my financial assets. In Japan, it is nearly impossible to get someone to be forthright about something.
Of course this was a problem so I broke up with her. You can ask someone something and they will smile and say “maybe” but what they really mean is a big fat NO.
Here is a conversation I had with a woman I was dating. This will include your personal relationships when dating so be prepared for a barrage of passive aggressiveness. Something that really needs to be mentioned is that Japan doesn’t really have a mental healthcare industry.
I am an economically dependent househusband coping with the withering drudgery of child-rearing.
Now that I understand the reality of that situation, I don’t blame women for demanding more for themselves than the life of the housewife.
I was staying at her house and this was late at night; not too long after we had sex. You thought American women and their shit tests were bad? Many women are running around there with some serious unchecked mental issues and you would not have the faintest idea at first.
Problems such as abuse can be seen as normal and that behavior will be projected towards you. You think it’s bad in the USA when women try to get full custody?
Before my wife started sleeping with other men, I certainly considered myself a feminist, but I really only understood it in the abstract.