Once again, I’d rather be talking about what normal people talk about on dates, like what they like to do for fun etc.
Although this might seem like the last one, it is nothing like it.
For all you know, I could actually really like alternative or rock music.
The point is, stop trying to prove to me that you’re “down” with whatever.
Statements like this are an immediate turn off for me.
Sorry, but I have no desire to fulfill your sudden thirst for a Black woman.
It won’t make me think you’re cooler; it will only make me think that you’re trying too hard.
Generally speaking, it’s not a good idea to get into a deep discussion about politics on a first date, but for some reason, White men will sometimes want to know what you think about certain popular issues concerning African Americans.One of the worst things a White man can do on a date is re-enforce Black stereotypes, even if it’s in a joking way. Because that tells me that you are simply judging me by my skin even though one would think you wouldn’t do that (after all, you are on a date with a Black woman).You may find it funny, but I don’t, especially if I don’t fit into the stereotype you are talking about. ”In this day and age, I think it’s safe to say that most White people know that referencing fried chicken in any way shape or form to a Black person can be offensive.Don’t take this the wrong way, it’s not that I mind discussing it, but I just feel like these issues shouldn’t be the first things you think of when we go for a first date.So all I remind you of is affirmative action, healthcare, and the Trayvon Martin case? For some reason, some White guys feel the need to prove that they are some sort of civil rights activist.Believe it or not, we’re not all the same, and some of us have differing views.