When women embark on an endless journey of dates, society often sympathizes with them, attributing their lack of success to the cliché that there are no decent men out there.
The woman is often viewed as the victim who just can't catch a break.
If you are strongly sensing something is off about a man, you should go with that feeling. If a man dates many women and is single past a certain age, women often make the assumption that he must be flawed in some way, a womanizer or a man that refuse to grow up.
Quality men know that they deserve the best life has to offer.They aren't going to just settle down with any pretty face because they know they deserve the best that life has to offer, not just whatever life has to offer.While women sometimes assume these men are playboys who are having the time of their lives, in reality, most of these men are exhausted and would love nothing more than to settle down with the right girl.They just have not found the right woman yet and will keep trying until they do.Remember, you can't always judge a book by its cover.
Sometimes the men who seem like a horror story on the surface are really a romance waiting to happen.They may stay single for years, knowing that at some point they will find what they are looking for.It is not a fear of commitment that keeps these men from settling down; it is a high sense of self-worth and the determination not to settle.However, if you want to pursue a sexual relationship or both feel that the potential to deepen the relationship is there, then you should become exclusive. Dating is a numbers game, and if you're not dating a number of people, how are you going to be able to find the right person for you?And for the life of me, I cant remember who told me such things. It's when it gets to the relationship stage (meaning, more times than not, that you're intimate with this person) that it needs to be cut down to just that one person.They will try to do the right thing for both parties by ending the "mini relationship" sooner, rather than later.