It is really offensive all the things that she says on the voicemail.
If you are a friend, trying to give us money or just want to talk, then leave a message or try my cell phone number.
Okay this is awesome for people with friends who don't know about Humor Hotlines, or Rejection Hotline. Okay if this is any of my weirdo friends, then I am sorry I did not give you my new number.
For you guys with our DVDs, “The Art of the Pickup”, it’s likely you are getting a lot more phone numbers than you’ve ever had before but are now running into the issue of follow-up and how to deal with the dreaded voicemail. for MOST guys it IS bad, but not for readers of TSB Magazine! For those few of you who actually got calls back after leaving such messages, I congratulate you on your ability to luck out on the lottery on a pure fluke. I wonder how many girls you waited on to call you back never did and then you gave up on them? You may think it takes an amazing story or magical words. All it takes is an easy-going tone and a few words: “Hey Bertha, it’s Bartholomew. I’ll try you again another time.” 9 times out of 10, I get called back within a few minutes.
We cover follow-ups a lot in the main DVD but here’s some additional advice in regards to voicemail. Example of a bad voicemail to leave a girl First, let me tell you what kind of messages most guys tend to leave on a girl’s voicemail. The fact is, a typical girl who gives out her number to many guys will hear that kind of message so many times it almost becomes comical to her… If she replies to it at all, it will be on a whim or because the guy managed up to that point to do everything else right to totally attract her. Leaving any other kind of message, or not leaving a message at all, less than half will call back and some of them will take a while.
Now I will tell you WHY because when you understand WHY you are better off and will be able to apply that understanding to other situations with girls… ” If in the chance she doesn’t call back in a reasonable time (within under a day), I can call back and it will not come across as my always trying to reach her because I maintained control on my end and did not send a vibe that I was anxious for her to call back.
The first example, which most men seem to get stuck on, gives away all mystery and sends the wrong vibe: “I am pursuing you, I am interested in you, please get back to me, I’m like every other guy, now the ball is in your court.” In MY version, there is no vibe of needy pursuit, an ambiguous interest, no specific request, and no similarity to all the other pathetic messages she gets from guys. Usually if I have to call back, my message is even SHORTER and MORE laid back: “Hey it’s me.
It is actually some practical advice for those that fear leaving voicemails when calling girls for the first time.
Leaving Good Voice Mails Have you ever called a girl for the first time, got her voicemail, and didn’t know what to say or if to even leave a message at all? It also depends on the girl to actually call back for the next step and that is BAD because girls practically NEVER call guys back even when they’re attracted to them. They almost NEVER take initiative on their end to call back, even if they like you. Anyway, you may be wondering what kind of message to leave.
First things first: tell your friends you changed your number. So here it is: (say your number) and again that number is (say your number). My nephew's landlord must have heard every excuse possible for late rent.
Her message says "Whatever unfortunate chain of events has led you to call my number this time!
Do you know I resent even doing this work because if I had a person who said I really want a job, I want to go on your case load, yes, all the time, every day of the week.