Our relationship, I note, has suffered because we don't spend enough time together (not surprising really, since she doesn't exist).
After a quick search, I get the measure of the women on the site.
Later on I'm perplexed when she sends me two flirty text messages.Reading between the lines, I suspect she wants to meet again.I wonder if anyone has ever read this, seen the wisdom of it and decided not to join. "I'm witty, charming, handsome and modest, and I'm kind to animals," I write, hoping this description will have a fairly broad appeal, and also include a recent photograph.Your picture can be viewed only if you give a password to the person with whom you are conversing.We have encountered one another via an internet dating service established for the sole purpose of enabling married people to commit adultery.
It may sound like an unpleasant niche website for a handful of amoral people to whom wedding vows never meant very much.And all of them are looking for an opportunity to betray their spouses. But I wanted to find out what sort of woman uses such a site.So I paid £119 for a month's membership, giving me an entre to thousands of faithless females.I'm already starting to feel like I've had enough of this experiment.But if I'm going to find out what really makes these women tick, I need to leave the safety of the virtual world and see them for myself. I arrange to meet a 41-year-old mother of two who misses "romance and flirting", in a cafe in two days' time.One woman sends me a message heavily laden with sexual innuendo and I come to regard her as the mistress of the single entendre. Another woman's first contact with me included a plan for a day out together, including visits to art galleries, a stroll round a park and then "a few hours under the duvet". I'm later propositioned by someone who tells me she has an hourglass figure.