Many women I talked to have told me that during the first weekend after they placed their ad they got about a hundred (yes, HUNDRED) replies.
If you can create interest in a woman and have her reply to your message, there are much better chances this will develop to something.This is not some lady who browsed your ad and replied out of boredom, this is a lady that wants to get to know you.GAMBLERThe scenario: “I got a message that said ‘Obviously you’re cute, but I’m just having trouble believing that this is actually you because you seem too good to be true.My buddy thinks you’re real and now we have a bet going. ” — Kristin, 26 The problem..the solution: Aside from the fact that this is a pathetic pickup line, it’s certainly never going to work. [pagebreak] DUMPED AND IN DENIALThe scenario: “I went on a few dates with a guy I met online, and I eventually decided we weren’t compatible, so I was honest with him.Okay, so I'm not trying to tell you that your ad is totally unimportant, but it's definitely not the most important thing.
It should be simple, honest, clean (of spelling and grammar mistakes, as well as bad language) and straight to the point. but don't spice it up too much or you'll risk scaring people away. and don't give away your life story and most intimate desires... Remember: the purpose of your ad is to provide some basic information about you to the women you will write to.I like to talk and love to listen to other people and usually don't have problems making friends.I look good (most people are able to look at me without throwing up) and I have great looking eyes (thanks mom).A lot of women are looking for something serious and have no interest in participating in your immature wager with friends. He refused to accept it and continued to message me listing all the reasons why we’d be great together.” — Ashley, 30 The problem..the solution: No matter how strongly you feel about your potential with a woman you meet online, accept the break-up gracefully.There’s obviously a reason she didn’t think it would work out, so why keep trying to pursue someone who is clearly not interested in you?You can put your picture if you want but from my personal experience I found that it doesn't really affect the number of replies.