This way, they don’t have to pretend to be interested in your day and can just skip to the, “long day, can I come over? #7 You’ve never been to their place (if they have roommates).If you know your current friend with benefits has a roommate or two and you’ve never been invited over—at all, ever—then you might want to take a step back and realize why this might be. That’s a surefire sign that they just want the sex.Since I personally have not been in nor stuck anyone in the hookup-only zone, I asked him for some help in determining the signs that you’re just a hookup and nothing more.
[Read: How to make a guy want a relationship after being just his FWB] #16 They’re open about the fact that they’re seeing other people.If you know they’re seeing other people, then they absolutely don’t want anything more than a hookup from you.Many relationships nowadays begin in the hookup phase—even though that’s kind of the opposite of how it’s supposed to work.You’re supposed to meet someone, go on dates with them, develop feelings, and then hit the sack.If a lady is given these signs, she can be sure she’s just someone for him to get in between the sheets with.
[Read: 10 most common mistakes people make on a one night stand] #1 You only see them at night.
One of the biggest signs that you’re nothing more than their go-to sex buddy is that you only see them at night.
Their days are full of everything else but you, and they only make an appearance after dinnertime.
As long as they get what they want out of it, they’re just fine with it.
That’s exactly how someone who only wants you for a hookup thinks.
#3 You never go “out.” Dates are not a possibility, and the two of you rarely do anything other than hang out in your apartment.