So whatever you decide, make sure you are supplementing your choice with a little bit of the other.
Online dating has opened a huge door for all the people out there who have bad luck dating around in real life.
Plus if you are going out just to meet women in real life, it helps to be un needy.
You’re putting yourself out there, and it takes confidence as you’re opening yourself up to possibly getting shot down.
This is confidence that you won’t develop no matter how many Russian models you instant message.
There are important disadvantages that you should consider before jumping in.
The good news is that most of the disadvantages to online dating can be overcome by a little forethought. Chance to meet people you normally wouldn't meet This is arguably the greatest advantage of online dating.
And while you’re getting out of your house anyway, you may as well go out and meet people, so why not do online dating AND hit up the bar/club/bookstore?
You’ll have the best of both worlds and double your chances at finding your new companion.You can then become the chooser which is a powerful attraction tool. I added this last piece because I really believe that the way to go is to combine online dating with traditional dating, until you meet the one – or until you are overloaded by the amount of women in your life. For ways to learn about meeting women during everyday life, read this – or check out And for sites to meet women during the time you are not out meeting women, check out sites like Anastasia Date, POF, or OK Cupid. *Update: Check out our full list of the hottest dating apps for meeting women online.So the verdict is that you should 100% be learning how to pick up and meet women in real life.For starters, if you meet a girl online, and this has been your first female interaction in 3 years, you are likely to blow it on the date.) If you’re not the club or bar type of guy try the coffee shop, bookstore or even take a random night class at a local university.