Then place it around the base of his shaft, and slowly move toward the tip.
As that hand gets to the tip, start at the base with your other hand. Have Stranger Sex When you pretend you're someone else, you completely change the rules.
"With role-play, you can more easily move outside your comfort zone and enjoy extreme sensations and positions you wouldn't normally try together," says Cadell.
Naughty move: Pretend you and your guy are complete strangers.
Try this grip to really wow him: Put one hand at the base of his shaft and the other right on top of it.
Then firmly grip him as you move your hands in opposite directions, twisting at the same time.
Even naughtier move: Before a date, entice your guy over to your place early, and let him watch you masturbate before you leave for the evening, telling him he can have his turn later.
"He'll think it's hot to get this intimate peek, which allows his own arousal to surge," explains Debby Herbenick, Ph D, author of .
For one, you both naturally become much more daring as you act.
Also, you have to be creative to play the part, and that means coming up with all sorts of naughty things your character might be into.
Then make your way over to him, and introduce yourself as whomever you want to be—like Annette, the sexy exec on a business trip.
Let others overhear your conversation, since some of the fun is performing for an audience.
Set up a time for both of you to be at the same bar, and play out the scenario like you're meeting for the first time.