Our moderation team manually check photos and personal ads across the site and a built-in screening system helps identify suspicious accounts, remove them and prevent re-registration.
Relationships and trust naturally happen over time, beware of anyone rushed declarations of affection.
Use messenger for all initial contact and never disclose personal contact information without feeling completely comfortable to.
Requests for money or financial assistance are not acceptable.
You should never send money to anyone you meet online; just as you would never give money to someone you recently met in a pub or cafe.
Do not trust anyone behaving this way and report the member to to safeguard further members.
I’ve been asked to support a charity from a member I don’t know very well, is this a scam?
Using the list of scammer behaviour to watch out for, this unfortunately, sounds like suspicious scammer behaviour.
You should never send money to someone to meet online, whatever the premise.
The policy of this site states that by deleting your account, all your data will be erased. Direct removal link Publicly visible text/images often aren't properly deleted even when you succeed in deleting an account.
Try editing or deleting them manually before deleting the account itself.
The sort of photos they use as well as the language of the personal ad can help you decide whether the member is genuinely looking for a partner or not.